What is your take?

IMAO in any relationship(for ladies), the guy should like you more than you like him (sounds old school right???) but marriage is for the rest of your life……..think about this…..when a guy is asking you is a totally different ball game from when you are actually dating not to talk of when you are married (as in you have his name…as your last name)…if he is not mad ass into you now….when in God’s name will he be? After your breasts are sagged from breastfeeding or your tummy extended from child bearing???? This is not to imply in any way that you shouldn’t luv your boyfriend or be into him……cuz if you don’t feel anything for him….his luv will make you sick and disgusted…….but damn….let him luv you more…..or worst case scenario be in a position where its difficult to say who luvs who more………


How do you know when you are more into him than he is?

The most tell tale sign is: When you always wait for your phone to ring…..fighting hard to resist the temptation to call….cuz you called last (or you seem to be the one doing all the calling)… or he hasn’t called for a while and you don’t want to seem so obvious

….Others…..
His phone is always on silent when you are together……

He is always too busy to see you….work…pressure….rest…endless excuses…you always seem to be the one eager to see him….setting up dates, etc

You have been dating for a while but you have never met anyone in his family……

He doesn’t go out of his way to do anything for you

His ex is still somehow in the picture….and you cant comprehend that…..

You are somehow insecure….unhappy….unsure….

……and the list goes on…..


so if you are in a relationship where you are obviously more into the guy than he is into you my take is get out of it….like right now……

WHAT IS YOUR TAKE?

a girl, a ring

something wonderful happened at work today…a girl got a ring….this girl J, got proposed to by a kiss…her boyfriend came to take out for lunch and after dropping her off wanted a goodbye kiss…in the process of kissing he left her with something….a ring in her mouth (Unique innit?) by the time she brought it out of her mouth and figured it was an engagement ring the bobo was on his knees……. I mean I’v heard a lot of proposal styles but this is…….unique……exclusive…….

So when a girl gets engaged, does she sleep that night….??????

I tried to imagine the scenario on the day I will get the ring ……it better be romantic (Temi hear dis o! ) if not I will sya no (for real)…LOL

That night…..i imagine I will turn and toss…..and turn…..and wonder…..is he the right choice…how will d future be….how many kids….will he change….will I change…..and many more…..

I imagine anxiety……anticipation….joy….worry….and my overactive imagination will keep me awake…but then I can never tell until it happens right?????

Back by popular demand! (Lol)

Am sorry for taking a hiatus without notice……why did I do that???
1. I got tired of updating (Crazy innit? Since no body held a gun to my head for update)
2. Work pressure (it was choking)
3. Was curious to know if delete blog will actually delete the entire blog (blame Uzezi for this)
4. Blogging wasn’t as therapeutic as I expected it to be (maybe cuz I was not as open as I should have been)
5. Many more reasons I cant remember
So am I forgiven????

A brief memory refresher….Am 22, done with school, done with nysc, have a job I don’t particularly like because the hours are long but the take home is very good so …..
I have a boyfriend (5 years older) whom I’v been dating for four years, who is caring, loving, patient, sexy, everything………..LOL….
I love listening to music, reading, watching football, dancing
I hate cooking but am a good cook (no need to be modest here!)
I am unnecessarily compassionate (people’s problem keeps me awake and tossing, far into the night) even people am not close to or I don’t particularly care about
I forgive people easily (2 ways. Either I don’t care enough about you to keep a grudge or I care about you too much to be mad at you)
I am the most impatient person ever (believe me)

I’l sign off on that note