Wednesday, July 30, 2008

What is your take?

IMAO in any relationship(for ladies), the guy should like you more than you like him (sounds old school right???) but marriage is for the rest of your life……..think about this…..when a guy is asking you is a totally different ball game from when you are actually dating not to talk of when you are married (as in you have his name…as your last name)…if he is not mad ass into you now….when in God’s name will he be? After your breasts are sagged from breastfeeding or your tummy extended from child bearing???? This is not to imply in any way that you shouldn’t luv your boyfriend or be into him……cuz if you don’t feel anything for him….his luv will make you sick and disgusted…….but damn….let him luv you more…..or worst case scenario be in a position where its difficult to say who luvs who more………


How do you know when you are more into him than he is?

The most tell tale sign is: When you always wait for your phone to ring…..fighting hard to resist the temptation to call….cuz you called last (or you seem to be the one doing all the calling)… or he hasn’t called for a while and you don’t want to seem so obvious

….Others…..
His phone is always on silent when you are together……

He is always too busy to see you….work…pressure….rest…endless excuses…you always seem to be the one eager to see him….setting up dates, etc

You have been dating for a while but you have never met anyone in his family……

He doesn’t go out of his way to do anything for you

His ex is still somehow in the picture….and you cant comprehend that…..

You are somehow insecure….unhappy….unsure….

……and the list goes on…..


so if you are in a relationship where you are obviously more into the guy than he is into you my take is get out of it….like right now……

WHAT IS YOUR TAKE?

15 comments:

Afrobabe said...

Am I first???

Afrobabe said...

Yesssssssssss.... I was first...errrmmm regaining my dignity...

You are very right…A guy should like the babe more cos really when them things start sagging, they go real quick…The no one way of knowing you are the one doing the loving is really your 4th point…
You have been dating for a while but you have never met anyone in his family……

Run, cos you aren’t the one…

OluwaDee said...

The guy should like you more than you like him.

That is how is should be o, cos as u said if he is not in2 u now, when will he be???

So u know Teju; small world.

Mz. Dee said...

and i'm 2nd!!!
first i gtg blogroll u asapp
then.. i agree with u on dis. Itz better if its nearly impossible to tell who loves who more rather than the girl fallin head over heelz for the guy and the guy jst hvin a "crush"

Mz. Dee said...

ohhhhhhhhhhh... why na!!
now i'm 3rd!!
i hate my internt.

LG said...

oya sweeri, clap 4 ya sef
'pa pa papapa mysef' lolllll
seriously now, all u ve said is nothing but the TRUTH infact let me copy it n send to one my girlfriends 'anonymously' ofcourse, dis post is just 4 her *grins*

how ur side?

doll said...

@afrobabe, yes o! run run run run
@Oluwadee small world indeed
@Miz Dee oya run and blogroll me…LOL
@LG feel free my dear

MP said...

This has never happened to me so i can't really say what I would actually do but knowing myself and my own pride I would get out of that asap!!!!!!!

Chari said...

errr...yeah i would think so sha...cuz u kno most of us men get roving eyes....

the genius within said...

Welcome back. We missed you..LOL

Anyways in my case its the other way round. I've always be more into a woman than she has been.

As i type sef, i'm so into a friend of mine but then she's not that into me.

The question really is 'why do we love the people who don't love us and ignore the ones who could ignore the world for us?'

Have a good weekend dear and don't go running away again.

Take good care.

Sha said...

Interesting but yea u are right!

Enigma said...

Quite simple!

Love is never really equal, apologies but it's true!someone will always outdo the other.. think about it

badderchic said...

This relationship thingy is too complicated jo! you would think after thousands of years man would have a clue! *sighs*

ibiluv said...

if i like him more......most likely i wont commit to him......

men can tell....usually they treat u like dirt!!!!!!!!!!

naijalines said...

Feeling u on this post too. I did a post a while ago about Mr Right and how to spot if he is the one for you. One of the ten essential points was that he should def be into you than you are into him. It's the only way it works. Or it would be a pretty unhappy marriage for the woman. Word.

The examples you gave on how to spot if a girl is more into the guy are spot on. We girls like to make excuses as to why he has not called. He's just not that into you. Run!