I’l be a year...23 to be precise this weekend...where are the May babies in the house???
Anyways was just reflecting on my life...i was promoted at work last week, the pay is gets better by the second, i bought a brand new car this year, am months away (by God’s grace) from being professionally chartered.
I seem to have achieved a lot for a girl my age but there is this nagging restlessness i cant shake off...this dissatisfaction, anxiousness ...am sorta on edge or is it bored... like waiting for what next..
Its just annoying cuz i cant place my hand on the cause..if its my job, my parents, my boyfriend, my car, my house ....LOL
Maybe its the numerous aso-ebi i keep buying, maybe its cuz my closest girlfriend just put to bed at 4am this morning...
Do i want to get married...NO..Not yet...i don’t want kids now...so what is my problem....why do i spend a lot of time these days thinking about marriage and kids and scaring the living shit out of myself...
My life is lacking excitement...
I need a new job so that i can get a life...
I guess am having quarter life crisis
Anyways make una join me thank papa God for an extra year and his never ending mercies...
If nothing else am sure he truly luvs me...
32 comments:
Happy birthday in advance. May God continue to add more years to your life.
got promoted, brought a new car..( who God has blessed no man can curse)..
you will be okay. it happens...
ohhhhh BSNC, i was sprinting to b first
lol...u r wayyy too young to be anxious about marriage...happy birthday...God is good oh.
this is just a phase,shit happens.
Happy birthday in advance & congrats on the promotion/pay rise/new car.
I get your feeling of dissatisfaction, i got my AAT qualification @ 18, finished uni @ 19, 3 pay rises last year, go on nice vacations but for the life of me am still DEPRESSED. It feels like something is missing and no one seems to understand.
While looking for something to motivate me or d next challenge to conquer i found solace in reading the bible.
It's helped me alot in the past few weeks
I'm a May baby too! Happy Birthday in advance.
...i need to go ask my mum if she lost my twin or something, brb!
@ BSNC thanx
@ LEggy thanx..i know its a phase
@ Jayla yes o!!! the bible abi?
@Bumight you keep saying that....
Happy birthday in advance....
And yay to all the good things happening in your life!
Be anxious for nothing..i pray you find an answer to the restlessness in your heart, usually a pointer to something!
lol...this one no be quarter life crisis yet o...when u reach 25 then u can talk abt quarter life crisis
enjoy life, take it one day at a time...u've got time on ur side...God will direct ur path..trust in him
happy birthday is advance dearie..
Lol @ quarter life crisis..
This is on the assumption that we all live to be a hundred right?
Jayla has some good tips on here..
am jealous! so much at ur age? am happy for u!
quater life crisis? dnt think so! you will be fine, u just need some excitement!
And i know you will find some, just relax!
oh...happy bday sweetheart! send us some cake!
Happy Birthday in advance!! Its normal to feel anxious...this too shall pass, i always say.
...is it true babes grow 1.25inches taller at their 23rd birthday?
wait 2 years
marraige *is* for the rest of your life!!!!!!!
you go girl....on all ur accomplishments....
on your crisis.....take a break from it all.......
vacation!!!!!!!!!!!!
wow! u're doing well i must say, but u'd be doing better if u were where u wanted to be. happy birthday in advance dear
Happy birthday in advance, and congrats on the nice things happening to you...
Like leggy said, it's only a phase, and it'll soon pass...in the mean time, dig into the Bible...u'd surely find solace and direction therein...all d best...
May baby here! :)
Happy birthday, hon. I hope u find whatever it is u r looking for or that is seemingly lacking..
U really r an inspiration mehn..congrats on all ur achievements..
wish i had ur life
AT 23!!!!!!!!!
I wish I could say that for myself at 23!
Happy birthday girl.......you are restless about everything being in order- you know, achievement wise....you better love it as it is, you really don't want any drama.
As for the marriage thing, .....I guess your mind is telling you what's next on your life's agenda, then again, maybe a lot of people around you are getting hitched, so your subconcious is taking note of it.
Congrats my lady. Hmmm marriage can wait, think of stuff you can do that can give you excitement. Masters degree? And since you mention changing job, search carefully and see where this takes you too.
You are in the age of restlessness if I can say so but be focus my lady
Happy Belated Birthday. And congrats on everything.
I think you've got your head in the right place.. but I wouldn't worry about the restlessness. That's a sign of our youth, you've done so much for yourself already but there's still a million things you have to do (besides marriage, of course. Focus your energy on one
waoh,u got a pay rise when everyone is gettin a paycut and companies are downsizing?congrats dear
u dont seem to have a lot,u SURE have a lot for a gal your age.the restlessness seems normal though u have to take it easy cos really with a good job,good car,been chartered monhts away,ur ambitious seide is thinking even if am not thinking marriage,let the man am mega sure of be on one side.......u'll be fine
Happy birthday,me i want my cake oh,ehen!!
happy belated bday, sweetie!
What's all this talk of quarter century crisis?
Behave yourself and update
as leggy said you are too young to worry abt marriage o jare!!
Nice blog!Happy birthday in advance or arrears...
Hey girl, hope you're ok...just cheking!
lol, thank God there is someone like me who is also into this marriage wahala, lol. Thanks for stopping by my blog
really good
its the season
i keep feeling the same way
its unnatural for me
maybe God put something in women to tell them the time
dunno
choose to be the best me everyday
"Brand new car". pray i'll get mine soon. Congrats on yours
happy belated birthday
So its like everyone is having a quarter life crisis. if you see this, please invite me to your blog okay.
I hope you are good.
Happy birthday in advance, congrats on the job promotion. I guess a sister can smile today.
You are indeed doing great for your age, God be praised, keep it up and marriage my sister shouldn't be in a hurry ok. Enjoy this free time now.
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