Monday, September 3, 2012

Life is truly in Phases

wow...its been four months since i last posted and seven months of marriage


where did all the time go....????


Over the long salah holiday holiday i had time to wonder

I dated my ex for a little over 6 years and i cant remember much the life we had together. I tried to remember life, love and all that before the hubs and its all hazy

After 6 years of working in one place after graduation i resumed at a new place on the 2nd of July. i was nervous and apprehensive, understably, seeing that i'd worked at only one place all my life, but i'm settling real good. i went for lunch earlier today and drove past my former and office and i struggled to remember how it felt to work there and it was all hazy and blurry.


I used to read some blogs about marriage before i got married but there was this particular one i couldnt help but feel the author was going out of her way to convince us (the readers) that her life and her marriage was perfect. I remember always thinking this is fiction jare.......now i feel like i'm in the same shoes which is why i'm probably not blogging regularly (plus settling down into work).....

Either ways, i can't hide from the fact that i'm having an amazing year both Emotionally and Financially...it seems sureal most times.


So i'm trying to enjoy my money, my hubs and status quo before the family expands and another phase of life begins.



Speaking of babies....i'v never been the type to fawn over babies...my younger brother is 20 and he's the last born so i'v not really been around children, plus anytime i hang out with my one of my close friend that's a mother, her son literarilly drives me crazy, he's favorite word on earth is mummy and he can say it one million times, as soon as he notices his mom is not paying him attention. But these days the motherly feeling is creeping on me and its pleasant, i even close my eyes and imagine my children's face.

I'v started praying about it though, for God to bless the hubs and I with good and healthy children (when we are ready); even if its to pay me in Kind, because i believe i was the model kid, focused on my studies and God whilst i was growing up and did not give my parents head or heartaches.


P.S thanks to those that checked up on me via comments and email.

13 comments:

Nutty J. said...

Congratulations darling. I am so happy for you

Jemima said...

good for you, enjoy it jare, it's a blessing!

Mrs Newlywed said...

"I used to read some blogs about marriage before i got married but there was this particular one i couldnt help but feel the author was going out of her way to convince us (the readers) that her life and her marriage was perfect. I remember always thinking this is fiction jare.......now i feel like i'm in the same shoes which is why i'm probably not blogging regularly"

Am glad you know it's not fiction. Enjoy it ;-)
Happy times in marriages are like full tanks of gas in cars, enjoy it because the memories will help you push the car to the nearest petrol station when you are stuck on "E" to fill up again :) LOL!
Believe me, everyone gets stuck on E at one point or another as the marriage progress, Even those with "perfect marriages" :)).
Cheers!

Myne Whitman said...

Marriage can indeed be sweet, and don't anyone tell you otherwise. We are all different so can our marriages differ, for the good. I pray your marriage continues to give you joy. All the best to you both!

N.I.L (Naijamum in London) said...

I'm glad it's not fiction for you.
Unfortunately, its the bad news we hear more so people's opinions about marriage are often negative.

May the joy and contentment you feel never fade. Amen.

Marriage is not easy but half the battle is won when one chooses to marry the right person.
I think you have made the right choice
Stay blessed.

'Lara said...

Congratulation on the new job and your family life...it is well with you.

SAMUEL EKUNDAYO said...

I agree, life is truly in phases o. I am in that phase of reading marriage blogs too. Don't tell me those things are too good to be true? lol

- LDP

Luciano said...

keep enjoying yourself but dont forget to drop by sometimes. we miss you

Unknown said...

madam...where have u been?

enjoy all d me time with hubs o! cos when d lil ones start arriving....***dnt let me scare u****

nice to hear from you sha!

Unknown said...

madam...where have u been?

enjoy all d me time with hubs o! cos when d lil ones start arriving....***dnt let me scare u****

nice to hear from you sha!


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Fluffycutething said...

Happy that you are indeed well and happy!!!

try and stop by more frequently....*hugs*

Blessing said...

Awww, God is good! So happy for you :):):)

Kemi said...

Congratulations and Mrs. Newlywed probably said it the best.

Enjoy life and wishing you the best!