Monday, October 20, 2008

What if?

When you luv someone so much that your definition of luv becomes the person and you know the person luvs you even more and has shown it a million and one times by words and actions?
Is it wrong to be tired not of the person or the luv but of the issues that trail the person?
Is it wrong to feel bugged down by the issues that are yours by virtue of being in luv with someone?
What if the memories of the time were there were no issues kept teasing you?
What if you can’t stop wondering why the issues with the one you luv seems to be endless?
What if you felt like walking away from it all?
What if the world is beckoning?
What if there were numerous toasters out there that seem to be offering you an issueless life?
But you know if you walk away you will never get to the point that you will stop worrying about his welfare, if he coping with the issues well, If he is eating, if he is breathing?
What if you will miss him so much and you are not sure that you will luv another much or another will luv you that much?
Is this fear of the unknown or a prisoner of Luv?
Jesus help with the issues Please!!!!!!!

21 comments:

naijalines said...

What if? Indeed...these are questions most adults in relationships have asked themselves at one point or the other. You are not alone. Let your head lead your heart. It is harder but seems to work better that way...somehow.

Let the higher power within you guide you and take control.

Just...Toluwa said...

I understand how love automatically makes ur partners issues yours, and how frustrating it can be, when you have your own to deal with.

I hope your what if's get answered!

AlooFar said...

Don't we all have what if questions in our brains?

Padosh said...

Ul just have to learn to love and live life like there are no "IF'S" cos if we dwell on the ifs we will never live life the way we are supposed to. We will dwell in the fear of the unknown and never live our lives.

ibiluv said...

when u find the answers

share........

LG said...

hmmm!!

simeone said...

well..if you love the person so much ...then maybe you should help the person work on the issues...thats if the person is willing to even work on the issues..
truth is you can't an issueless person o...
lord will help with dem issues..

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

when do issues turn into 'character' when does 'he is always busy so I dont see him often turn into 'actually he is selfish and inconsiderate and is not really committed to the relationships. issues if not resolved turn into something more deeply engrained something which can damage the relationship and possibly damage those in the relationship too. If he has issues he with your help needs to work on them, and if they still exist then maybe its time to evaluate your position in the relationship.

Stingess said...

Life is too short, do what makes u HAPPY.

What would make u happy? Would u be happier and more at peace with urself and with life is u left this person?

Buttercup said...

What if u just forget about all the 'what ifs' and just enjoy the moment?

Ade Adeyemi said...

wiw ... I read this and I think straight away that growing up aingt no easy task! u've asked the one person u can for help and he will make it clear!

QMoney said...

What if i told u all ur rants sound normal to me??
they arent offering u an "issueless life" so to speak,they are offering u the 20% u dont have at the moment and u desire,are u sure u wanna throw d 80% of what u have away??
someone teach me how to link pages......please go to my 80%,20% post and tell me if it helps.....

Aijay said...

Hmmm... r u happy? Thats the most important question u need to ask. Think about that.

I'm also a bit concerned about what the "issues" are. Miss Definitely Maybe took the words out of my mouth. Read her comment properly.
Pray about it too darling, it'll help. All is well!

rayo said...

wish i could remove all the issues in myn too, then things'ld be perfect. but i guess i stick wit him coz what's to say the next guy wont raise issues too. nd i guess u just have to hold on to the love nd let him kno how u feel, see if he'll cut down on them issues. take care dear

doll said...

Thanx for all the comment. P.S the issues are not something he can control, they are more spiritual, or inherited ancestral curses, they are so not ordinary that’s the only way I can attribute them

OluwaDee said...

There will always be "what if" issues.

The point is you are in love and you feel loved. Do not let "what if" spoil the whole thing.

Perfect love casts out all fear.
Do not be afraid.
Take it day 1 step at a time.

bumight said...

sounds like a lot of what ifs to me. Issues need to be worked on though, no one should be a prisoner of Luv.

simeone said...

why dont you go to your pastor..since you know the issues or if you dont want to then maybe another trusted and mature man of God..what ever you do..dont act by fear...peace

Buttercup said...

Hey babe, how r u?

Mekistein said...

I go with buttercup...forget the what if's! and just enjoy the moment..give it ur best and most importantly grease it with prayers.

FFF said...

to this question: "What if there were numerous toasters out there that seem to be offering you an issueless life?", my answer is "ever heard of d saying 'd grass looks greener 4rm d other side'.