Wednesday, January 14, 2009

First Rule of Break up

I did say I have never done this before…nobody warned me the first rule of break up which is don’t see him…

Well he came to my office last week fri after 2 hours of pulling the right strings (he sure knows the right strings to pull after all its been five years) my heart had to melt…

I feel weak like I cant take a decision and stand by it…

I however take solace in the fact that he was really shaken and believed I was really and truly ready to move on

But between me and you, he is on probation…..any hint of insecurity I would just start dating somebody else..maybe that’s the only way I will be able to move on.

Well so far he has been on his best behavior…I haven’t driven this week…he gets to my house 5.30am to pick me up…drops me at work and takes me back home (he says he will do this for this whole week)…he has really been amazing…but am skeptical as to how long “ this amazing behavior will last” will last

Anyways I will keep u guys posted

29 comments:

miz-cynic said...

whteva u do pls dont break up with this guy. he seems cute and loving. he his ready to do "time" for ur love. cute.very cute.

Just...Toluwa said...

i hate break ups! they suck especially if ur still into d guy. And doesnt it suck when you really want them to be jerks so its a lil easier but they begin to act very nice...URGH!

well, go with the flow sweetie!

Writefreak said...

Darling, seems like your guy is performing! I hope you guys can make it work...but pls o, don't close your eyes if there are issues you won't be able to cope with...
cheers

Tigeress said...

hey! u left a comment on some chick's blog called Tigeress (http://tigeress-tiger.blogspot.com/) as well- i dont think she's Nigerian. lol!!

As for this ur bobo.....u must have ur reasons for wanting to end it in the first place. But u say he's behaving- then u might as well wait and see how it goes.

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

He has probably learnt his lesson
enjoy the 'good behaviour'
coz this is the only time he will let you get away with murder lol

Uzezi said...

i doubt u guys are meant to be apart. so let him back fully

ibiluv said...

seems things will work out between you two.....

see how it goes...

Sting said...

U never said y u wanted to break up with him, but if he is ready to change things up, then u should give him another chance and u guys can work on the relationship together.

Therapy said...

Aaaw he's really trying. It could still work! *Fingers crossed x

mizchif said...

I will join by keeping my fingers crossed. Lets hope the amazing behaviour lasts!

QMoney said...

i dont even know what to say.lemme do it it the Lg style.
It is well,takia hun

ShonaVixen said...

awww how sweet and yup he's definitely doing time for his crime..lol..enjoy hon!!

Smaragd said...

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i'm a bit unable to say anything here, because in these matters of the heart, only your heart can tell u what to do.

i pray you make the right decision babe.

it is well

StandTall-The Activist said...

Everyone deserves a second chance if they are repentant and humble… pls use both your head and heart in this matter. You know it goes beyond dating, consider “what if’ you get married too.

Both of you need to sit down and address whether or not it matters who earns what, whether or not it matter…. In all counts.

All the best.

Afrobabe said...

Glad to see u took the advice babes, give it time and dont be on the look out for issues to pick on...

MissLove said...

yippie keep us posted oh!

rethots said...

You asked so, i shall speak. No holds bar....

Did i hear you say; "he says he will do this for this whole week"? WHAT???
Do you hear what i hear being screamed? Conditional.

My watchword, "Never start what you cannot complete or sustain."

'tis still your choice to make anyways....

Marjoram said...

he seems really ready to make things work.i suggest you really enjoy and appreciate him.lol!

Chari said...

lol! women!

hehehehe...eeeyaa....I feel cynic on this one...he's ready to do time...so plz give him a schance...one way or another I feel y'all should make it work...really...

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Dabizniz said...

I've been hit hard by my wife cheating on me. I guess loves conquers all. I hope it works out

simeone said...

i was thinkin he should have said he'll do it for ever..not for one week..lolll...
do as you wish jare ...na ur life..

Tisha said...

He loves you ok. so do not expect him to be perfect.

Buttercup said...

phew! u didnt break up after all!

i really hope n pray this change is permanent..all the best sweetie n keep us posted.

Olufunke said...

How are you holding up?
Pray God would give you the wisdom to know what to do

TY Tha Mos Magnificent said...

EVRY1 IS A SUCKER 4 LUV

Funms-the rebirth said...

seems like he's willing to be what u want so ride it out but be very careful...... all d best

anonymous gal said...

Break ups suck big tyme. but make upssssssssss

Mekistein said...

hmnn...well lets see how long its gonna last....