Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Open letter to the EX

Dear You,

It is with great joy in my heart and overwhelming gratitude to God that I write you this letter.

I am so happy because I am whole again, my heart is healed and I am OVER YOU. It is amazing because only last month (June), I was scared that it will never happen. Time does heal every wound for real and morning definitely comes after every night. God is indeed awesome.

Looking back to how much I suffered from January to June, how I wept, wished, prayed, hoped and all I just sigh. However, I forgive myself for all those unnecessary and wasted emotions because you were everything that love represented in my life plus it just felt so right. So right that I dint give margin for error, I dint hedge for uncertainty, I guess that is what made it harder to deal with.

I don’t know the exact day I got over you, I just realized sometime towards the end of June, that I had gone an entire week plus without thinking about you at all, and I had been happy for a while without knowing it, depression, discouragement, disappointment were suddenly foreign to me (tres amazing considering how they had been my companion for the first half of the year).

Am so grateful for everything July has been to me. It has been an amazing way to start the 2nd half of the year and if it is any indication, 2010 is gonna end as a blast for me.
Thanks for your call yesterday, thanks for the invite to see your new house, am sure it is great and beautiful but I’l pass, thanks for missing me, I kinda don’t miss you at all, sorry. Thanks for praying for me, may heavens answer (Amen). I wish you the very best in life.

P.S thanks all for your well wishes, prayers and comments and on my last post, when I said I wanted this relationship to be shorter than the 6 years of my first relationship, I wasn’t being pessimistic, I actually meant the dating process, una no want make I marry? LOL

25 comments:

SHE said...

Happy for you!
See? Time heals all wounds...

Good idea to pass on the offer to see new house. Haba, for what now?
Please remain in the past.

Fragilelooks said...

i believe that time sure heal all wounds but wot if the scar starts itching.
pls its good u jumped and passed the offer of seeing the new house that u wnt be part of.

The nitty-gritty tales of a housewife said...

oh! am so glad for you!..TIME HEALS they say...lol @ last post comment..yes o! we want you to marry..i did not understand myself... goodluck.

Nutty J. said...

Good for you...

Now keep stepping

Sting said...

lol @ una no want make i marry.... we want make u marry o! I'm happy u r whole again and feel better.

Young Grumbler said...

That's good, you can truly move on now. Best to be happy for each other from a distance

Fabulo-la said...

Somebody shout Halleluyah!
Lol

~Sirius~ said...

LOOL @ Fabuola!

This is A-W-E-S-O-M-E!!!

This chapter is definitely closed.

The Non-Student said...

This letter is for YOU, which is a great thing! May healing continue and deepen.

YankeeNaija said...

so glad you have the closure you needed. here's to you being free and moving forward. cheers!

Myne Whitman said...

This is great o, and yes we want you to marry. All the best dear...

mizchif said...

This is good, great infact.
i like TIME.

And yes we wan make you marry, let's hope this one turns out great.
Take care.

2cute4u said...

Hmmm,
Hmmm,
Okay, Don't hate me for what I'm about to say..
YOU'RE NOT OVER HIM..
But, the good thing is, you're actually heading there..
You've made it.

Lara said...

lol @ una no want make i marry...we want make you marry. All the best

LE DYNAMIQUE PROFESSEUR said...

Breakups are not that interesting. I've been there...
Thank God for you. May you not miss His perfect will for you.

- LDP

Nice Anon said...

and just when one has managed to move on is when they resurface. I am glad you have moved on and have something that is working for you now. Here's to things getting to the end of the road for you lot. *fingers crossed*

downtheaisle said...

lol @ una no want make i marry.... he!he!!he!!! of cos we do!

i like d way u passed on d idea of seeing d new house...what's ur business with it...babe u've moved on and its good for u!

Good Naija Girl said...

I'm very happy for you...I'm glad you can face the ex and wish him good things but no longer feel sad about the change in his role in your life.

Mz. Eniola said...

omg! im so happy for u big sis :) yaaayyyyy!!!! we all eventually heal :)

Vanity said...

Congrats

http://somepeoplehaverealproblems-vain.blogspot.com/2010/07/i-cried.html

Geebee said...

This was a pretty interesting read. Maybe we should all take a cue from it and write such every now and then to exes after we get over them – for the purpose of rubbing it in or maybe just easing off pressure. Nice one, doll. I also guess I mixed up your intentions in your last purpose. It’s definitely okay not to want to date for too long. ‘Who no wan marry?’ like you rightly questioned.

Parakeet said...

Well done girl...glad you doing okay.

Afrobabe said...

Hi pretty one...Hope you are good...

Don't worry, something good is coming your way...

The WASP said...

Lovely post. Good to know you are over your ex.

First time here and loving it already.

nencys said...

i want to say just forget it .i knwo its matter of sorrow but time make your great time be strong.............
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